Wednesday, December 19, 2007

On the Road to Recovery

Greetings, Friends!
I am two weeks into recovery from major surgery (feminine matters), and am feeling pretty good. I was able to stop taking the heavy-duty pain killers a week after surgery, and am now just using ibuprofen as needed. My family has been amazing; they stayed with me in the hospital, help me at home, and still lift things for me when needed! All of my brothers and sisters who live in town came to see me (and the other two called), as well as many other friends and family members. I am very blessed, and the outpouring of support has been magnificent!

My children have been at my side from the beginning. Those who were able to stay with me in the hospital did so for an entire day, and others came as possible. They have brought me gifts, joy, a welcome home sign, game times, laughs, and kindness. Sebastian has spiced up our otherwise humdrum evenings once or twice, and brought much laughter to our home. What a wonderful family we have!!! Of course the kids are helping out more around here too, with extra chores and driving and patience with what isn't happening, such as our annual St. Nicholas Day visits! St. Nick wasn't able to come this year, and everyone accepted that as graciously as could be imagined.

Last weekend I had the privilege of attending Diane's commencement ceremony where she received her PhD. She treated the entire family to a weekend of celebration at a luxurious Radisson, including all meals. We were pampered to no end! She is an example to me of a woman of quite strong faith, character, and physical stamina! Diane never complains, and has worked incredibly hard for her achievements, all the while attending to the needs of others, and doing so with joy and gratitude. You go, girl!!!

Today I also want to express my deep love for my husband, Dave, without whom my life would just not be the same. He is my better half, my best friend, and the source of so much of my earthly happiness and serenity. Dave knows how to love. He has loved me through thick and thin, and during this time of recovery, is caring for me like a precious gem. He responds generously to my requests for help, even if he is tired. Last night, for example, my feet were quite sore, and I asked him if he could rub them. His actions were not done with a hurried "can't wait to get this done" type of attitude, but instead with care, tenderness, and even patience. He is a truly great man, and I am honored to be his wife.

Thank you for reading, and feel free to post comments! I love to hear from you too.